Hi Eric
See the 912iS MMH, section 76-50-00, page 17. There is a note in the upper right of the page. I have attached the page below. Deoxit is about improving the quality of the contact surface. It’s used a lot in electronics (and electric guitars) where it is applied to very low current and low voltage devices to improve and preserve the contact surface. The ECU is similar, with some sensors and devices operating at low voltage and current, requiring very low resistance connections.
Dielectric grease is an insulator, and it works because the connector friction displaces the grease at the contact point, leaving the remaining grease around it to stop oxidation and arcing. I know some have used dielectric grease on the ECU connectors with success, but with the properties of these particular connectors dielectric grease may in fact worsen the connection.